Uplifting essential life skills for Pre-K through 12th Grade.


Choose Love is a proactive solution that addresses the root cause of violence to prevent it before it starts.

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It Starts with Jesse.


The story of Scarlett and Jesse has inspired millions to more thoughtfully respond. If Jesse can find the courage to save his classmates in that moment of crisis and Scarlett can find gratitude, forgiveness, and compassion through this tragedy, there is hope and inspiration for all of us.

  • Elevating Choice Moments – Where it all happens! We either make Reactive Choices or Heroic Ones uplifted through the Choose Love Formula.
  • The Head and the Heart – The perfect balance of Neuroscience and Emotional Awareness & Intelligence appeals to all ages and stages.
  • Lessons Become Life – We help nurture environments where all involved instinctively come to choose love for themselves and others.

I'M CHOOSING LOVE!

Choose Love Curriculum


Lesson Length:
Pre-K-1 15-20 minutes | 2nd – 3rd 20-30 minutes | 4th – 5th 30-45 minutes | MS/HS - 10-20 minutes


Each lesson includes: 

Choose Love programs have been designed BY educators FOR educators.


Instructors agree that it is fun and rewarding to learn alongside the students as each lesson is taught.

No formal program training is required; you can immediately begin teaching the lessons.

Standards Alignment


Choose Love for Schools exceeds CASEL standards!

MAS Charter School in New Mexico Chooses Love

"Both of my boys are in the Choose Love program. They actually use it to help remind each other to calm down and center themselves. I like the fact that Choose Love is more about the solution-based social-emotional learning rather than let's just let it all out and then we're done. There really is a focus to it - the lessons are divided into these four units which create a formula for choosing love courage + gratitude + forgiveness + compassion and action equals choosing love."

West Warwick, RI Chooses Love

"When we did the choose love week the amount of participation from the kids was hands down one of the best programs that I've ever seen. Even the teachers and what they say and what they do when they think about things before they speak even when they're angry or they feel emotional everyone just takes one more second to think about how they might be affecting each other I think that's a really important change in the school. I've noticed how teachers and students equally both have implemented the virtues that choose love spreads into their daily lives and it really improves your overall mental state and how other people view you and how you view other people in tough situations and it creates like a rational response to everyday life problems."

Have questions? We have answers.

At least three things. First it all started with Jesse and that inspirational story inspires everyone.

If Scarlett could find courage, gratitude, forgiveness, and compassion after losing her 6-year old son, we all can. Second the emphasis on making Heroic Choices during our Choice Moments is super easy to understand and activate and it’s where all decisions originate. Third connection the head and the heart where lessons become life leading to safer and more uplifting environments we all want to live in.

Choose Love For Schools™ is aligned with the new Character and Social Emotional Development Standards (CSED).  These standards include BOTH Character.org and CASEL’s standard.

It also aligns with Common Core and ASCA Mindsets and Behaviors.

Choose Love For Schools™ goes beyond these standards and ALSO incorporates Growth Mindset, Neuroscience, Mindfulness, Positive Psychology, Post-Traumatic Growth and Emotional Intelligence into the lessons.

Choose Love For Schools™ units include a Caregiver Connection section that offers links to videos, activities and discussion topics from our Choose Love at Home program that was designed for quick, easy family instruction.

Many of the Choose Love For Schools™ lessons encourage learners to think about ways they can apply the lessons to improving their communities, and we also proudly offer programs developed for Community organizations and for Athletes and Youth Leadership development because we are committed to helping extend the benefits of the Choose Love Formula™ beyond the classroom.

Within the three levels of MTSS, Choose Love can be a universal support to ALL students. It can also be utilized in small groups with targeted support to provide short-term intervention by a counselor, or intervention teacher.  Choose Love For Schools™ is not a therapeutic program and may not be appropriate for intensive, individualized support and intervention for students with more intensive needs.

Choose Love For Schools™ addresses the cause of the suffering that often leads to self- harm.  Choose Love For Schools™ is not intended to be a replacement for therapy. Choose Love For Schools™ is an educational model, not a therapeutic model, and does not attempt to diagnose or provide therapeutic instruction.  The Choose Love For Schools™ curriculum can be easily adopted by Educators, Counselors and Social Workers.

The literature component is not necessary to teach the four pillars of the Choose Love Formula™; however, each book was hand-selected by our team in order to teach diversity, inclusion, and social justice.  The literature component is also what sets Choose Love For Schools™ apart.  Experiencing the literature and going on the journey with the characters emphasizes the Choose Love Formula™: Courage + Gratitude + Forgiveness + Compassion in Action = Choosing Love

Literature is the pathway to the heart and connections with others.  It fosters positive self-esteem and empathy, supports inclusion, and nurtures respect and acceptance among students.  When students realize everyone feels the same emotions, no matter the color of their skin, where they come from, what language they speak, or how they look, they realize their similarities are more than their differences.

NO!  The curriculum is written so that the educators can learn alongside their students.  There is very little preparation required, making it easy to teach and easy to learn. We do, however, offer additional training and support which you can read more here.

Pre-K through 1st grade lessons take approximately 15-20 minutes; 2nd and 3rd take approximately 20-30 minutes; 4th and 5th take approximately  30-45 minutes.  The lessons are designed to be completely flexible.  They may be completed in one session or broken into smaller sessions throughout the day or over the week.

Yes!  Our team will connect you with your state ambassador who can help facilitate tailor-made professional development for your specific needs. Learn more here.

It can be tempting to vilify bullies, but time and again we are reminded that hurt people, hurt people. Ultimately, it is essential to separate the person from the action. The Choose Love formula can be particularly effective resolve bullying behaviors.

The formula involves elevating Choice Moments…the pause between a stimulus and response where everyone can either choose a courageous healthy response or a reactive one.  The Supervisor, the Bully, the Bullied, the Bystander, and Upstanders can learn how the formula can work to their advantage.

  • Courage to choose a more thoughtful response essential to break free of our automatic reactive patterns.

  • Gratitude to have the skills and wisdom to bring a new lens to the situation.

  • Forgiveness for previous reactive responses without losing sight of accountability or limit setting.

  • And Compassion-in-action to have a deeper appreciation that we are all the same in the want and need to love and be loved.

Based in neuroscience, Choose Love not only reduces and prevents bullying but also allows everyone involved to hold onto their personal power. All of these actions disrupt the pathway to violence yielding healthier, happier, and especially safer environments where entire communities are uplifted.

The Choose Love curriculum is offered at no cost, providing essential life-skills programs for all ages reaching over 3.5 million children and adults in all 50 states, and 120 countries.

To access the Choose Love curriculum, you will need to first register here: https://chooselovemovement.org/registration/
(If you have already registered, you can log-in here: https://courses.chooselovemovement.org/users/sign_in)

When you register, you will be able to choose between Chose Love for Schools, Choose Love for Homes, Choose Love for Communities or Choose Love for Champions.

If you pick Choose Love for Schools, you will also be asked to choose which curriculum grade you would like to start with.

After you are registered, you will receive an email with log-in information.

When you log-in for the first time, you will only see the one program that you chose during registration.

To access additional programs, you could simply choose a program that you are interested in, from the menu on the left, either under Choose Love for Schools or under the Additional Curriculum menu options. Then you would choose the additional program that you would like to access, and enroll in that program at no additional charge. The new program that you will chose will also now show up whenever you log-in.

If you have already registered, you can log-in here: https://courses.chooselovemovement.org/users/sign_in

If you are having any trouble with any part of the website or curriculum, please send an email to [email protected] .

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